Bismi-(A)llaahi-(Al)rrohmaani-(Al)rrohiim(i)
Nahmaduhu-wa-nusholli-'aalaa-rosulihi-(A)lkariim(i)
A(l)ssalaamu-'aalaaikum
Jazaki-(A)llaah! Satu artikal yang menarik pada pandangan Babaji.
Melihat kepada gaya bahasa yang digunakan Babaji beranggapan artikal
berkenaan bukan ditulis oleh seorang Muslim/Muslimah. Sekiranya
artikal berkenaan adalah tulisan seorang Muslim/Muslimah maka dia
pastinya adalah seorang Muslim/Muslimah yang kurang bernasib baik
kerana tidak peka dalam urusan dan hukum hakam Agama. Seorang
Muslim/Muslimah pasti akan menghubungkan sesuatu dan semua perkara
dengan Agama. Contoh yang terdekat adalah Bella, di mana beliau
mengulas dengan satu ulasan singkat yang terus mengaitkan issue
terlibat dengan Agama.
Alhamdu-li-(A)llaah! Babaji telah dapat meneliti artikal tersebut
yang pada dasarnya memuatkan satu hasil kajian kes dan analisa
kaedah keselamatan yang baik pada teorinya. Issue gangguan,
pencerobohan dan rogol ada kalanya boleh disamakan dengan issue
kebakaran. Dalam keadaan aman maka teori akan kelihatan logik dan
berkesan. Hakikatnya dalam kejadian sebenar teori yang sepatutnya
membantu mugkin tidak dapat dilaksanakan akibat beberapa faktor
seperti kejutan, ketakutan, buntu, persekitaran yang berlainan,
tiada latihan dsb. Itulah sebabnya diadakan fire drill bagi
menghadapi bencana kebakaran semata-mata untuk menimbulkan suasana
yang mirip dengan kejadian sebenar dan menanam disiplin dan naluri
terkawal ke atas mereka yang terlibat.
Alhamdu-li-(A)llaah! Kali ini Babaji ingin menyumbang sedikit
pandangan kaedah keselamatan dalam menghindari atau menyelamatkan
diri dari bahaya gangguan, pencerobohan dan rogol menurut perspektif
Agama sekedar yang Babaji maklum! Babaji mohon agar Netters sudi
menyemak dan memperbetulkan atau mempertingkatkan mana-mana
kenyataan Babaji yang perlu ditangani seumpamanya.
Formula 1: Jalin hubungan yang paling erat seberapa mampu yang
boleh dengan Allowh SWT.
Formula 2: Gunakan kaedah Rasulu-(A)llowh SAW seberapa mirip yang
boleh seberapa banyak yang mampu diamalkan.
Maasyaa-Allaah! Menurut Guru dan Sesepuh, seseorang akan terjamin
keselamatannya apabila dia berpegang dan beramal dengan 2 formula di
atas. Sebaliknya seseorang yang tidak meghiraukan 2 formula
tersebut maka tidak adalah jaminan keselamatan keatasnya! Petua
Guru dan Sesepuh itu bukanlah sekedar kata-kata milik peribadi
mereka tetapi adalah kata-kata yang disandarkan kepada Kalam Robb
SWT dan Kalam Rosul SAW.
Gangguan, pemcerobohan dan rogol boleh terjadi di luar mahu pun di
dalam rumah ... Allowh SWT adalah Maha Pelindung dan Maha
Penyelamat ... jika dengan takdir Nya seorang wanita itu diuji
dengan bencana seumpama itu ... maka kata Babaji ... dirogol dalam
keadaan seorang wanita itu ada hubungan erat dengan Allowh SWT dan
dalam keadaan amal yang mirip sebagaimana amal Rosulu-(A)llowh SAW
adalah jauh lebih baik dari seorang wanita yang selamat dari bencana
rogol tetapi hidup dan matinya dalam ke adaan derhaka kepada Allowh
SWT dan sesat dari jalan lurus Rosulu-(A)llowh SAW! Namun Babaji
tetap berdoa semoga setiap Muslimah selamat sejahtera dari bencana
gangguan, pencerobohan dan rogol!
Menurut hukum, seorang wanita tdak harus keluar rumah tanpa izin,
tanpa ditemani dan tanpa tujuan. Maka alangkah manisnya wahai ibu-
ibu ... wahai isteri-isteri ... wahai anak-anak gadis ... untuk
hanya keluar rumah apabila ada keizinan dari pihak yang sepatutnya.
Alangkah indahnya akhlak seorang wanita yang menerima izin untuk
pergi ke tempat A dan di pun pergi ke tempat tersebut sahaja dan
kemudian kembali ke rumah ... dan bukanya menambah langkah pergi ke
tempat-tempat lain yang di luar keizinan baru kembali ke rumah!
Manakala sekiranya ia perlu berbuat demikian maka dia sepatutnya
menghubungi pihak yang berhak memberi izin demi mendapatkan keizinan
tambahan! Ingatlah ... keredhaan pihak yang memberi izin adalah
juga keredhaan Allowh SWT. Demikian juga wanita harus keluar rumah
dengan ditemani ... nilai Muslimah di sisi Allowh SWT adalah sangat
tinggi ... dan semua manusia pun faham bahawa apa pun yang bernilai
tinggi perlulah dipelihara keselamatan dan kehormatannya! Justru
itu ... hari ini kita mungkin berhadapan dengan fenomena modern yang
sukar untuk beramal dengan amalan tidak keluar rumah jika tidak
ditemani ... maka sekurang-kurangnya outings yang sedemikian
mestilah terkawal dan pada tahap yang paling ... paling dan paling
minima dan terpaksa!
Astaghfiru-(A)llowh! Babaji agak kesuntukan masa ... maka Babaji
hanya dapat senaraikan ... tanpa perincian ... langkah-langkah
penjagaan dan perlindungan keselamatan untuk seorang wanita keluar
rumah:
* Ada tujuan.
* Ada izin.
* Ada teman ... jika tiada maka carilah teman seperjalanan!
* Tutup aurat.
* Langkah keluar rumah dimulai dengan kaki kanan.
* Baca Bismi-(A)llaahi-tawakkaltu-'aala-(A)llaaowh(i)-wa-laa-haula-
wa-laa-quwwata-illa bi-(A)llaah.
* Baca Bismi-(A)llaahi-(a)llazi-laa-yadhurru ... sampai akhir 3 X.
* Baca do'a naik kenderaan semasa menaikinya.
* Baca do'a masuk bangunan semasa memasukinya.
* Baca do'a masuk pasar semasa memasukinya (i.e. Shopping Complex
dan kedai-kedai adalah dikirakan pasar).
* Baca do'a masuk tandas semasa memasukinya.
* Beri salam dan menjawab salam.
* Lazimkan tasbih, ta'uz, istighfar dsb sesuai dengan apa yang
ditemui.
* Banyakkan zikir kecuali di tempat yang tidak sewajarnya berzikir.
* ...
* ...
* ...
* Amalkan apa yang disarankan dalam artikal yang di-forward oleh
Bella!
Wa-(A)llowhu-aa'lam
<<< babaji >>>
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--- In dakwah@yahoogroups.com, Nova Isabella <nova_isabella@y...>
wrote:
> Be extra careful girls!! (Thinks: Saya belum pernah
> dengar wanita berjilbab/berpurdah/menutup aurat kena
> sexual harrasment atau dirogol.. Fikirkan wahai kaum
> wanita, inilah hikmah Allah SWT perintah kita menutup
> aurat bila keluar rumah..)
>
> Wassalam,
> -Bella-
>
> Note: forwarded message attached.
>
>
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>
> > >> > You may be well-aware of the recent rape case
> > >> > happened to a student who was being followed by a
> > >> > man and she fell from the stairwalk, hurt, backbone broken
and
> > >> > still being raped by the rapist under the stairway.This was
all
> > >> > happened in day time at 2.30pm!! So, please read on this
message.
> > >> > A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were
interviewed
> > >> > on what they look for in a potential victim and here
> > >> > are some interesting facts: (A) WHO (1) The first
> > >> > thing men look for in a potential victim is
> > >> > hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman
> > >> > with a ponytail, bun, braid or other hairstyle that
> > >> > can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go
> > >> > after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair
> > >> > are not common targets.
> > >> > (2) The second thing men look for is clothing. They
> > >> > will look for women who's clothing is easy to remove
> > >> > quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut
> > >> > clothing.
> > >> >
> > >> > (3) They also look for women on their cell phone, searching
> > >> > through their purse or doing other activities while walking
> > >> > because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.
> > >> > (B) WHERE (1) The time of day men are most likely to
> > >> > attack and rape a woman is in the early morning,
> > >> > between 5:00a.m. and 8:30a.m. (2) The number one
> > >> > place women are abducted from/attacked at is grocery
> > >> > store. (3) Number two is office parking
> > >> > lots/garages. (4) Number three is public
> > >> > restrooms/toilets. The thing about these men is that
> > >> > they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move
> > >> > her to a second location where they don't have to
> > >> > worry about getting caught. Only 2% said they
> > >> > carried weapons because rape carries a 3-5 year
> > >> > sentence but rape with a weapon is 15-20 years. If
> > >> > you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get
> > >> > discouraged because it only takes a minute or two
> > >> > for them to realize that going after you isn't worth
> > >> > it because it will be time-consuming. These men said
> > >> > they would not pick on women who have umbrellas, or
> > >> > other similar objects that can be used from a
> > >> > distance, in their hands. Keys are not a deterrent
> > >> > because you have to get really close to the attacker
> > >> > to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince
> > >> > these guys you're not worth it.
> > >> > (C)HOW
> > >> >
> > >> > Several defense mechanisms he taught us are:
> > >> > (1) If someone is following behind you on a street
> > >> > or in a garage or with you in an elevator or
> > >> > stairwalk, look them in the face and ask them
> > >> > questions like " what time is it? My friends are supposed
to be
> > >> > here 10 minutes ago." etc. This is to show that your
friends are
> > >> > on the way, so it's not worth for him to take the risk.
Secondly,
> > >> > it shows that you're a CONFIDENT person and you're not the
> > >> > type that look timid and can be easily take over.
> > >> > Thirdly, now you've seen their face and could
> > >> > identify them in a line-up if they are caught.So,
> > >> > with this you lose appeal as a target to these
> > >> > rapists. (2) If someone is coming toward you, hold
> > >> > out your hands in front of you and yell "Stop or
> > >> > Stay back!". Most of the rapists this man talked to
> > >> > said they'd leave a woman alone if she yelled or
> > >> > showed that she would not be afraid to fight back.
> > >> > Again, they are looking for an EASY target. (3) If
> > >> > you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge
> > >> > advocate of it and he also carries pepper spray with
> > >> > him wherever he goes,) yell to the rapist: "I HAVE
> > >> > PEPPER SPRAY!!" and holding it out will be a
> > >> > deterrent. (4) If someone grabs you, you can't beat
> > >> > them with strength but you can by outsmarting them.
> > >> > If you are grabbed around the waist from behind,
> > >> > pinch the attacker either under the arm between the
> > >> > elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh - HARD.
> > >> > This instructor was told by a woman in his class of
> > >> > defence, said that he used the underarm pinch on a
> > >> > guy who was trying to date rape her and the rapist
> > >> > was so upset as she broke through the skin and tore
> > >> > out muscle strands!! - the guy needed stitches. Try
> > >> > pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can
> > >> > stand it; it hurts. (5) If you slap a guy's parts it
> > >> > is extremely painful. You might think that you'll
> > >> > anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more,
> > >> > but the thing these rapists told our instructor is
> > >> > that they want a woman who will not cause a lot of
> > >> > trouble. (6) When the guy puts his hands up to you,
> > >> > grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far
> > >> > as possible with as much pressure pushing down on
> > >> > them as possible.
> > >> > The instructor did it to me without using much
> > >> > pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both
> > >> > knuckles cracked audibly.
> > >> >
> > >> > IN ALL CASES, DO NOT PANIC!!
> > >> > By the way, it is also worth to leave scratched mark
> > >> > on the rapist any part of his body for easy identifcation
if he
> > >> > is caught. Of course the things we always hear still apply.
> > >> > Always be aware of your surroundings,take someone with you,
eg to
> > >> > the toilet, to the car park, if possible if you can and
> > >> > if you see any odd behavior, don't dismiss it, go
> > >> > with your instincts. You may feel a little silly at
> > >> > the time, but you'd feel much worse if the guy
> > >> > really was a trouble.
> > >> > PLEASE READ THEN FORWARD THIS TO ANY WOMAN YOU KNOW,
> > >> > OR TO GUYS THAT HAVE A WIFE, DAUGHTER, OR
> > >> > GIRLFRIEND. AND TO YOUR SONS -- AS YOUNGSTERS
> > >> > ARE NOW TEMPTED BY THE WORLD AND THEY COULD BE LURED
> > >> > BYFRIENDS AND INVOLVE IN DATE RAPE/GANG RAPE. TEACH
> > >> > YOUR SONS/MEN TO RESPECT WOMEN. SO, PLSE SEND OUT -
> > >> > IT'S SIMPLE STUFF THAT COULD SAVE A LIFE
> > >> >
> > >> >
> > >> > ---------------------------------
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> > >>
> > >>=====
> > >>"When a child plans for a plane trip, his father gives the
child
> > >>money only on the day he leaves, and not one month in advance.
> > >>Today, we may not have the strength or faith to suffer for
Christ,
> > >>but the day He gives us the honor to suffer for Him, He will
also
> > >>give us all that we need to emerge victoriously." -----
Anonymous
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